The Journey of Reclaiming My Sanctuary
A home evokes a feeling and a sense of belonging that other locales just can’t seem to provide. That’s why I embarked on the journey of home renovation: to create my ideal sanctuary, my idea of perfection. I won’t lie: it was a long, arduous process. But it was well worth it in the end, as are so many things that test your very being.
My southeast Iowa farmhouse pre-dates 1900. As is the case with many old homes, the surviving records aren’t the best, but others in my community have dated the structure to around 1890. I do happen to know that when it was built, it was finished in more of a Victorian aesthetic, including corbels in the eaves and ornate trim work. At some point in the course of history, most likely when the siding was updated, all the home’s original features were removed.
Over the years, my house had undergone lackluster but completely expected updates. It had wood paneling on all main floor walls and a temporary drop ceiling. This was a common way to cover up the original plaster that likely needed to be replaced. All original details, including doors, hardwood flooring, and woodwork, had been stripped out and were long gone.
Uncovering the Farmhouse Soul
I spent years dreaming and thinking of ways to not only update the house but instead, bring the house back to its farming roots. Every other occupant had left their stamp, and it was time for me to do the same, right?!
I had a checklist of things I wanted: an open entertaining space while still maintaining the feeling of “rooms,” accessible and flexible storage, and a cozy baking nook. This renovation was no different than any other – when do you decide to stop? I finally pulled the plug and applied the brakes. The first-floor bathroom and laundry will have to wait until another year (or maybe decade – ha!).
Without further ado, here are the final finished spaces:
Designing an Engaging Entertaining Space
I wanted an open entertaining space while still maintaining the feeling of “rooms.” Since the walls were structural, I used the casing to create this look. When guests are sitting at the dining room table, they can still interact with whoever is in the kitchen.
Accessible and Flexible Storage
I didn’t love the idea of always having open shelving, but I still wanted them to be accessible. So I had the doors constructed to recede into the cabinet on tracks. I also made sure to design deep drawers complete with a peg system that would provide flexibility.
A Cozy Baking Nook
I lovingly termed what used to be part of my mud room the “baking room.” I plan to do all my baking here, including breads, cookies, pies, you name it! To mirror the pantry cabinet right beside it, I installed one in the baking room to house my mixer, flours, sugars, and extra pans.
Blending Old and New in Perfect Harmony
While the initial idea was the only to renovate the kitchen, this renovation was no different than any other. When do you decide to stop? I finally pulled the plug and applied the brakes. The first-floor bathroom and laundry will have to wait until another year (or maybe decade – ha!).
Embracing the Farmhouse Aesthetic
I opted for traditional farmhouse windows (in black!) and simple four-panel doors. To match my upstairs, I installed rim lock door handles that will patina and age with use and time. For the floors, I wanted to keep things light and airy. A 3/4″ hardwood white oak with no stain was my final decision.
Adding Intentional Touches of Warmth
My living room and dining room have always been open to each other. But when the ceilings were raised to nine feet, my contractor discovered a load-bearing beam. Rather than be disappointed, I decided to make it an extra thick cased opening. Turns out, I love the look!
In the entry, I opted for a wood-topped bench in white oak to match the floors. And to add durability, I went with a black slate floor, laid in a herringbone pattern with a double bond around the edge.
Lessons Learned Through the Process
I’ve always heard people say “you need to build at least three houses to know exactly what you want.” In my head, I never believed anyone would actually need to do that. Who doesn’t know what they want? Now I understand why the saying.
Confirm the Details and Communicate
I spent a lot of time and focus on finding and purchasing the perfect lighting. While I went over the indoor light placements and double-checked the height of the picture lights, I forgot to go over how the outdoor lights by each door. They ended up much higher than I wanted.
Embrace the Imperfections
There is a significant hump in the floor from the dining room to the kitchen. I noticed it throughout the demo and asked about it, but it never seemed to be a big deal to my subs. After everything was installed, I still notice it. And yes, I’ll live with it just fine, but wish I would have had it leveled out.
Expect the Unexpected
Even if it seems like no big deal, everything takes longer than you’d think. Right now, the construction industry seems to have more jobs lined up than time available. More than likely, your contractors will not be dedicated only to your project.
Rediscovering the Soul of My Home
Dramatic? Maybe, but there were times when all I craved was my home back. Now that it is, I couldn’t be happier. And I’m excited to be able to share it with you, in the hope that it inspires you to revel in your home. If you haven’t found your “home” yet, I hope this small glimpse into mine will tide you over ’til you do!
Whether you’re looking to update your kitchen or tackle a full-home renovation, the team at ABC Home in Aberdeen, UK can help you breathe new life into your living space. Contact us today to get started on your own home rejuvenation journey.
