Oh, the joys and challenges of multigenerational living. If you had told me 20 years ago that I’d one day have my mom, dad, grandma, and grandpa all living under the same roof, I probably would have laughed in your face. But life has a way of surprising us, doesn’t it?
The Rise of Multigenerational Households
When I first started my home design business, little did I know that one day I’d be an expert in multigenerational living. It all began when I asked my mom to move in and help me care for my daughter, who was dealing with some health issues at the time. Soon enough, Dad moved in too, followed by Grandma and Grandpa. For years, four generations lived together, and let me tell you, it was an adventure.
Multigenerational households were on the rise even before the COVID-19 pandemic, but when remote work became the norm and college campuses closed, younger people moved back in with their families in droves. As of last July, a whopping 52% of young adults were living with one or both of their parents, according to the Pew Research Center. It’s a tradition as old as time, but in America, it can come with its own unique set of challenges.
Striking the Balance: Private Spaces and Shared Areas
One of the biggest concerns in sharing a house with other generations is how to strike a balance between private and shared spaces. Cini, the founder of Mosaic Design Studio, puts it perfectly: “Part of that is because of the voracious independence the younger people crave.”
You see, in many parts of the world, multigenerational living is the norm, but in America, we tend to value our personal space and freedom a little too much. The key is designing for that independence while still fostering a sense of community within the home. It’s a delicate dance, let me tell you.
Designing for Independence and Togetherness
When Maydan, the principal and founder of Maydan Architects, moved to Palo Alto, she started planning her own house with her parents in mind. Back then, no one was really thinking about guest houses, but Maydan saw the value in having a detached unit for her parents, where they could feel more independent.
Even when the unit is attached, Maydan suggests having an exterior door so the residents can come and go as they please. After all, a successful multigenerational household is all about finding that sweet spot between privacy and shared spaces.
Accommodating Different Needs and Preferences
But it’s not just about balancing private and shared areas. When designing for a multigenerational home, you’ve got to consider the unique needs and preferences of each age group. Maydan suggests planning ahead and opting for different HVAC systems to accommodate different temperature preferences. And don’t forget about those mobility issues that may arise later on – wide openings and elevator shafts are a must.
Cini, on the other hand, likes to think about technology as a tool that can elevate the living experience for everyone. Lighting that’s bright enough for seniors but adjustable with dimmers, kitchen cabinets that can be lowered for older generations and children alike – it’s all about creating a space that works for everyone, no matter their age or ability.
The Importance of Community and Shared Experiences
But it’s not just about the physical design – it’s also about fostering a sense of community within the home. Katie McCamant, an architect and cohousing development consultant, believes that isolation can contribute to depression, and that’s the last thing we want for our loved ones.
Cini agrees, saying, “We’ve been told as Americans that happiness and success mean independence. That’s one of the biggest lies.” When going out to bars is no longer an option, who are the people you talk to more – the bartender or your grandparents? The answer is obvious, isn’t it?
Designing for the Long Haul
Of course, designing a multigenerational home is no easy feat. McCamant suggests that it’s helpful for designers to understand the clients’ long-term needs – after all, whose house is it, and how long are you planning on doing this? It’s all about talking through expectations and finding a design that can evolve with the family’s changing needs.
After all, great design isn’t just about looks – it’s about creating a space that can adapt and grow with the people who live in it. And when it comes to multigenerational living, that’s more important than ever.
Bringing it All Together: The ABC Home Renovation Approach
At ABC Home Renovation, we understand the unique challenges and joys of multigenerational living. That’s why we’ve developed a comprehensive approach to designing for the modern, multi-age household.
Our team of experienced designers and architects will work closely with you to understand your family’s needs and preferences, from privacy and shared spaces to accessibility and technology integration. We’ll help you strike the perfect balance, creating a home that fosters independence, encourages togetherness, and adapts to your changing needs over time.
So, whether you’re embarking on a new build or looking to renovate your existing home, let’s chat about how we can help you design the perfect multigenerational oasis. After all, home is where the heart is – and when it’s shared across generations, it’s a truly special place.
